Songwriting Advice
How Do You Start To Write A Song
You want to write a song that matters. You want that first line to land like a punchline or a confession. You want a chorus that people sing in the shower and a verse that makes strangers nod their heads like they know your story. This guide gives you a no nonsense, laugh a little, get it done approach that works whether you play three chords or you live inside your laptop with 48 tracks going at once.
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Quick Links to Useful Sections
- Start With a Small Promise
- Idea Sources That Actually Work
- Personal detail
- Text messages and voice notes
- What if scenarios
- News and weird headlines
- First Lines That Hook
- Sketch The Melody Fast
- Write the Chorus Like a Mic Drop
- Build Verses That Add Scenes
- Pre Choruses That Push
- Rhyme, Prosody, and Why Your Song Might Sound Awkward
- Harmony Without Overcomplicating It
- Topline vs Beat First Workflows
- Production Aware Writing
- Workflows That Turn Ideas Into Songs
- Ten Minute Seed
- One Hour Demo
- Evening Finish
- The Crime Scene Edit
- Co Writing Without Losing Your Voice
- Overcoming Writer Block
- Tools That Help
- Real Life Scenario: The Kitchen Song
- Finish Rituals That Work
- Common Beginner Mistakes and Easy Fixes
- Examples You Can Model Tonight
- How Long Does It Take To Start A Song
- How Do You Know When A Song Is Done
- Action Plan You Can Start With Right Now
- FAQ
We will cover idea generation, first lines, melody sketches, basic harmony, lyric edits, topline craft, production friendly writing, collaboration tricks, finishing rituals, and fast exercises you can do in your kitchen while the coffee breathes. I will explain jargon like DAW so you do not have to guess. You will get real life scenarios and tiny templates you can steal and use tonight.
Start With a Small Promise
Every song needs a promise. A promise is the single feeling or story you will deliver. It keeps the song from wandering into five different moods and trying to be everything. Write one sentence that states the emotional core. Be blunt. Imagine you are texting a friend at 2 a.m.
Examples
- I am leaving, but I still dream about your hoodie.
- This city makes me feel like I am a minor character in a movie I did not audition for.
- I found the courage to say no and it tastes ridiculous and sweet.
That sentence will become your title candidate and a north star for choices later. If your verses want to go somewhere else, you can check them against the promise. If they do not help the promise then cut them. Promise first. Everything else is garnish.
Idea Sources That Actually Work
Where do ideas come from? Everywhere. But some places are better than others. Here are reliable idea mines with examples you can use right now.
Personal detail
Pick one concrete object from your life and make it speak. A broken mug, an old playlist, a receipt from a dog sitter. These items anchor vivid imagery. Example line: The mug still has lipstick like a fossil of arguments.
Text messages and voice notes
Read the last five texts you sent or received. That awkward unread message is a story. The line I saved your dog from your ex is a better starting point than I love you. Real life texts contain voice and rhythm that translate directly into lyrics.
What if scenarios
Pick a low budget movie plot and make it personal. What if you ran into your ex at a grocery store and they asked for the receipt as proof of a happier time. That scene gives you a verse and a hook without much effort.
News and weird headlines
Take a strange headline and shrink it. A line about seagulls stealing wedding rings can become a metaphor about trust.
First Lines That Hook
The first line is not a place for a thesis statement. It is a camera frame. Show an action that suggests the rest of the story. Avoid explaining emotion. Show a small physical move that implies feeling.
Weak first line: I feel alone tonight.
Stronger first line: I put both mugs in the sink and pretend the other one is still warm.
Try these starter prompts as quick drills
- Something I hide in my pocket that should not be there.
- What I tell the bartender when you call my name.
- The place I look when I want you to call me back.
Sketch The Melody Fast
Melody is therapy and math. It needs to feel easy to sing and unavoidable to remember. You do not need perfect range. You need a gesture someone can hum in the car.
Simple sketch method
- Play a two chord loop on guitar or keyboard at a comfortable tempo. Two chords are enough to reveal motion.
- Sing on vowels only for two minutes. No words. Record. This is the vowel pass. It frees your ear from language and finds shapes that want words.
- Find the one phrase you can hum three times without thinking. That is your hook gesture.
- Now try to place a short sentence on that gesture. Keep it conversational.
If you do not play an instrument use a phone app that loops chords or a palette of piano sounds inside your DAW. DAW stands for Digital Audio Workstation. It is the software where you record, arrange, and produce music. Examples are Ableton, Logic, FL Studio, and Pro Tools. If the names sound like rocket fuel, do not worry. A free app or a simple phone loop will do fine at the start.
Write the Chorus Like a Mic Drop
The chorus is the promise delivered. It should be short, clear, and repeatable. Treat it like a line someone will text to their ex with one word changed.
Chorus checklist
- One to three lines maximum.
- A title or strong phrase that you repeat.
- Simple language that can be sung loudly at a party.
- Melody that is slightly higher than the verse. Lift in range helps the ear feel release.
Example chorus draft
I keep your key under the mat. I keep your key under the mat. I sleep like I am not forgetting where you live.
Build Verses That Add Scenes
Verses are the movie reels that lead to the chorus. Each verse should add a detail or a complication. Think camera shots. Close ups beat explanations.
Verse writing tips
- Start with an action in the first line.
- Use a time crumb. That is a specific time or place. It makes the story feel lived in.
- Use a physical object. Objects give listeners a way to picture the story.
- Save the emotional summation for the chorus.
Example verse
The elevator lights forgot our floor. I press it twice like a child. A woman hums a song we burned on a Friday and everything smells like cheap perfume and the cheap coffee we pretended to like.
Pre Choruses That Push
A pre chorus is optional. If you want the chorus to feel earned, write a short climb. The pre chorus uses tighter rhythm and shorter words to create tension that the chorus resolves.
Pre chorus tricks
- Use repetition of a single word or syllable to speed the rhythm.
- Shorten the syllable count to make the chorus arrival feel roomy.
- Hint at the chorus title without saying it in full.
Rhyme, Prosody, and Why Your Song Might Sound Awkward
Prosody is a fancy word for how words fit the melody. If your stressed syllables land on weak beats the line will feel wrong even if the words are brilliant. Fix prosody by speaking the line out loud at normal speed and marking the stressed words. Then move those stressed words to stronger musical beats or change the line so the stresses match the music.
Rhyme matters less than rhythm. A perfect rhyme can sound childish if everything rhymes. Mix perfect rhymes with near rhymes and internal rhymes. Near rhyme means the ending sounds are similar but not exact. That keeps things modern.
Harmony Without Overcomplicating It
You do not need complex chords to write a great song. A three or four chord loop can carry a whole career. Focus on the bass movement. A small change under the chorus can feel huge.
Easy harmonic moves
- Use a loop that moves from the tonic to the relative minor. That gives contrast without confusion.
- Add one borrowed chord from the parallel key for an emotional lift. Borrowed chord is when you take a chord from the major if your song is minor or from the minor if your song is major. It creates a fresh color.
- Try a pedal bass. Keep the bass note constant while changing the chords on top for tension.
Topline vs Beat First Workflows
There are two common ways to start. Topline first is when you write melody and lyrics over a simple chord loop or instrumental. Beat first is when you have a full production and the topline fits into the existing groove. Both work. Pick what energizes you.
If you are topline first
- Lock the hook early.
- Make a simple demo so producers know the vibe.
- Keep the range singer friendly.
If you are beat first
- Listen for spaces in the beat where a vocal can sit comfortably.
- Write shorter phrases if the beat is busy.
- Use the beat as a character and name the moment in lyrics to create synergy.
Production Aware Writing
You do not have to be a producer to write production aware music. Production aware means you make choices that help the track translate from voice memo to full mix.
Production aware checklist
- Leave space for the vocal. If the beat is dense, write a vocal with fewer syllables.
- Think about where an instrumental hook could echo your lyric. A single synth line can answer a vocal phrase and add memorability.
- Mark where ad libs will live. Save big ad libs for the final chorus so they feel earned.
Workflows That Turn Ideas Into Songs
Here are three simple workflows you can use depending on your time and mood.
Ten Minute Seed
- Write one sentence promise. Use it as a title.
- Make a two chord loop. Sing on vowels for two minutes and find a gesture.
- Place the title on that gesture and repeat it three times to form a chorus.
- Write one verse with a time crumb and an object.
- Record a phone demo and label the file with the title and date.
One Hour Demo
- Three sentence promise and two alternate titles.
- Choose a tempo and a drum pattern or loop.
- Do a vowel pass, then add words and a pre chorus that points to the title.
- Write two verses and a bridge idea. Keep simple chord chart.
- Record a rough vocal and export stems for collaboration.
Evening Finish
- Work on structure and form map. Decide where each payoff lands by time.
- Refine melody shapes and prosody. Record multiple passes.
- Add backing vocal hooks and small production taste like a reversed sound or a filtered synth swell.
- Run a crime scene edit on lyrics. Remove every sentence that explains rather than shows.
The Crime Scene Edit
This is the ruthless cleanup that separates demos from songs. You examine the lyrics line by line and remove excess words and clichés until only the image and feeling remain.
Crime scene edit rules
- Underline each abstract word and replace it with a concrete image.
- Delete any line that repeats another line unless it adds a twist.
- Replace being verbs with action verbs when possible.
- If a line works as a caption on social media, keep it. If not, make it sharper.
Co Writing Without Losing Your Voice
Co writing can rescue a stuck song and teach you new tricks. It can also dilute your voice if you let it. Use this playbook to keep your identity.
Co writing rules
- Bring a promise sentence. Make sure everyone knows the deal.
- Share specific examples from your life. Small personal details keep songs original.
- Let one person run the session. Too many cooks break the shape.
- Record everything. You will get lines to steal back later.
Overcoming Writer Block
Writer block is often permission block. You are waiting for the perfect line. Permission is a quick trick. Try these tiny acts to start moving.
- Write the worst chorus you can imagine. Terrible work gives the brain permission to play. You will find a better idea inside the bad one.
- Steal the structure from a favorite song and write new words. Structure theft is legal in your notebook.
- Go for a walk and narrate three small observations out loud into your phone. Turn one into a line when you sit down again.
Tools That Help
Not every tool is magic. Use what opens you up. Here are things that actually help.
- Phone voice memo app. Capture melody moments and lines whenever they arrive.
- A small portable recorder or a simple audio interface. Better than your phone mic but not necessary at first.
- A DAW. Logic and Ableton are popular. If you do not want to learn new software, use a phone loop app or an online beat maker.
- Thesaurus and rhyme finder. Use them after you write, not while you draft. Draft first. Then refine with tools.
Real Life Scenario: The Kitchen Song
You are wearing yesterday's shirt and the kettle clicks like a clock. Your phone lights up with a text from someone who used to be everything. You do not want to call back but you want to tell a story. You walk to the sink and the last slice of pizza is there cold like a memory. You open the voice memo and hum a short three note gesture. You say one sentence into the phone. I left your hoodie on the chair and now it smells like your cologne and the couch where we almost learned to be adults. Ten minutes later you have a chorus loop. Next day you turn the loop into a verse and a title. Two weeks later you have a demo. That demo is authentic because it came from a small honest scene in your life.
Finish Rituals That Work
Finishing is a muscle. Without rituals songs linger unfinished. Use a finish ritual to seal the deal.
Finish ritual checklist
- Make a one page form map. Write down section order and approximate times.
- Record a clean vocal over a simple version of the track. No auto tune unless you want it intentionally.
- Send to three listeners who will tell you only what line stuck. Do not let them give you production notes yet.
- Make one last targeted edit. Stop when edits stop improving clarity.
Common Beginner Mistakes and Easy Fixes
Here are problems I see all the time and how to fix them fast.
- Too many ideas. Fix by returning to your promise sentence and deleting anything that does not support it.
- Chorus is weak. Fix by simplifying the language, raising the melody range, or shortening the line so it lands like a punch.
- Verses tell emotion. Fix by swapping abstract lines for objects and actions.
- Lyrics sound like a diary and not a song. Fix by tightening lines to camera shots and making the chorus universal enough to sing along to.
- Prosody mismatch. Fix by speaking lines out loud and moving stressed syllables to strong beats.
Examples You Can Model Tonight
Use these mini templates. Replace the bracketed part with your detail.
Chorus template
[Promise line] I say it like I mean it. [Promise line] I say it like I mean it. I fold your shirt into a shape I can hide from sleep.
Verse template
Line one camera shot. Line two object and action. Line three small time crumb. Line four leads into pre chorus or repeats an image with a twist.
Bridge template
Change perspective. Shift the camera. Use one line that reframes the promise into a new question. Keep it short and allow the final chorus to answer or repeat with new meaning.
How Long Does It Take To Start A Song
Start time is variable. You can start a song in ten minutes and finish it in six months. The important metric is a usable first demo. If you can get a chorus and one verse on a phone demo you are in a position to iterate. Put a date on the file name. Momentum matters more than perfection.
How Do You Know When A Song Is Done
A song is done when it does what you set out for it to do. If the promise feels fulfilled and the listener can repeat the chorus after one listen you are close. Also stop when the edits begin to express taste instead of clarity. If your table of changes is now about whether a guitar should be a bit brighter you are probably finished. Archive a version and move on. You can always revisit later with new ideas but shipping builds muscle.
Action Plan You Can Start With Right Now
- Write one sentence promise and three alternate titles.
- Open your phone recorder. Make a two chord loop or find a backing track online.
- Do a two minute vowel pass and mark the best gesture.
- Place the promise sentence on that gesture to make a chorus.
- Write one verse using a clear camera shot, an object, and a time crumb.
- Record a quick demo and name the file with the date and title.
- Send it to one trusted listener and ask what line stuck. Make one targeted edit and archive a new version.
FAQ
How do I start writing a song when I have no idea
Start with a small physical detail or a one sentence promise. Use your phone to record a melody or a line. Two chords are enough to reveal a shape. The goal is a usable demo not a finished product. Break the task into tiny steps to avoid paralysis. Try the kitchen exercise where you narrate three observations and pick one to turn into a chorus.
Do I need to play an instrument to start writing songs
No. You can use a phone voice memo and hum melodies over a loop. Many writers start without instruments and later learn simple chords to flesh out the idea. If you want to record a demo later free online tools and smartphone apps let you create loops and simple beats. The important part is melody and lyric, not technical skill.
What is a topline
Topline means the vocal melody and lyrics written over a track. If someone says they wrote the topline they mean they created the main vocal part that people sing. Topline work can be independent of the beat or the full production. It matters because a strong topline is often what listeners remember first.
How long does it take to write a good song
There is no fixed time. Some songs arrive in a single hour and become hits. Others take weeks of rewrites. Measure progress in versions. If you can make a strong demo and improve it in defined passes you are on the right path. Finish rituals help you stop fiddling and ship a version that communicates the promise.
How can I keep my songwriting original
Use personal details and specific objects. Originality is usually about perspective not inventing new ideas. A universal theme told through a unique camera shot will feel original. Small details like brand names, times of day, and odd behaviors make listeners believe you. Avoid clichés by doing the crime scene edit where you replace abstract words with concrete images.