Songwriting Advice
How To Make Your Own Lyrics For A Song
You want lyrics that hit like a punchline and stick like gum on the subway floor. You want words that feel true, singable, and not like something your neighbor scribbled in the Notes app at 3 a.m. This guide takes you from blank page panic to a lyric you can actually record, perform and obsess over without shame. We will keep it messy, honest and practical. This is for the people who use coffee as a life force and the folks who cry at TikToks about houseplants. You are welcome.
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Quick Links to Useful Sections
- Why Write Your Own Lyrics
- Mindset Before You Start
- Real life scenario
- Tools You Need
- Start With One Sentence: The Core Promise
- Choose a Structure That Helps the Idea Breathe
- Structure 1: Verse, Pre chorus, Chorus, Verse, Pre chorus, Chorus, Bridge, Chorus
- Structure 2: Verse, Chorus, Verse, Chorus, Bridge, Chorus
- Structure 3: Intro hook, Verse, Chorus, Verse, Chorus, Middle eight, Chorus
- Write a Chorus That Is a Promise and a Punch
- Verses That Show Not Tell
- Pre Chorus as the Tension Builder
- Rhyme Choices That Sound Modern
- Prosody: Say It Out Loud and Match the Beat
- Prosody exercise
- Melody and Lyrics: Friends Not Frenemies
- Imagery That Makes Listeners See
- Metaphor and Simile: Use Sparingly and Get Creative
- Editing: The Crime Scene Pass
- Micro Prompts to Write Faster
- Co Writing and Collaboration
- Quick terminologies explained
- Protecting Your Work
- Finish the Lyric and Make a Demo
- Release Checklist for Your Lyric
- Examples You Can Steal and Rewrite
- Common Mistakes and How To Fix Them
- How To Keep Improving
- Frequently Asked Questions
Everything here is written for millennial and Gen Z songwriters who want the process to be as entertaining as the result. We will cover idea generation, title work, structure choices, rhyme craft, prosody which means matching words to musical stress, melody alignment, imagery, edits that kill fluff, and the step by step finishing plan that stops songs from living forever in draft purgatory. We will explain any jargon or acronym so no one has to pretend they know what a PRO is. Bring a notebook or open your notes app. Also bring snacks.
Why Write Your Own Lyrics
Writing your own lyrics gives you ownership of voice, story and brand identity. Fans who feel like they know you are more likely to follow, stream, and buy. Writing your own words also saves money and keeps control. You do not have to be Shakespeare to be effective. You have to be honest and skilled at choosing details that make listeners imagine a scene. Let us say it another way. Anyone can write a sentence that says I miss you. Fewer people can write a sentence that says the second toothbrush still stares from the glass. The latter hooks the ear and the brain in a way that creates loyalty.
Mindset Before You Start
Drop perfectionism at the door. If you need a permission slip, here it is. The first draft is for garbage. The second draft is for truth. The third draft is for craft. Writing lyrics is muscle work and editing work. Expect to make bad lines and throw them away proudly. Also know this. Short is strong. A line that says everything you want it to say in nine words is worth more than three paragraphs of pretty fog.
Real life scenario
You are on the bus and you overhear someone say I packed his T shirt into the drawer I never open. That line costs nothing and now you have a song idea about unresolved boxes and rooms. You could write an entire chorus from that image. That process is normal and good. Learn to harvest lines from life.
Tools You Need
- Notes app, phone, or small notebook. Use whatever is always within arm reach.
- Voice memo recorder. Sing or speak lines as they arrive so you can hear natural stress.
- Timer. Timed drills are the secret weapon for avoiding overthinking.
- A simple chord loop or a cappella. You can write without production but melody wants to live on something.
- A friend who will listen and tell you what line they remember. The right feedback is brutal and kind.
Start With One Sentence: The Core Promise
Write one sentence that explains the emotional promise of the song. This is not a thesis. This is a text to a friend. Short, clear and specific. Example promises.
- I will not call you after midnight.
- I get lost and find myself in the cheap diner where we met.
- Being single feels like freeing a bird and keeping the cage in my room anyway.
Turn that sentence into a working title. Titles should be singable and small. If you can imagine someone shouting it at a show, you are close.
Choose a Structure That Helps the Idea Breathe
Structure gives rhythm to how you reveal information. Songs that reveal too much too soon feel flat. Songs that reveal too little feel vague. Choose one structural map and commit. The most common shapes are simple and effective.
Structure 1: Verse, Pre chorus, Chorus, Verse, Pre chorus, Chorus, Bridge, Chorus
This classic form lets you build tension and then release. The pre chorus acts like a pressure valve that makes the chorus land harder.
Structure 2: Verse, Chorus, Verse, Chorus, Bridge, Chorus
This shape hits the hook early. It is useful for shorter songs that need a repeatable chorus. Use the first chorus to define identity right away.
Structure 3: Intro hook, Verse, Chorus, Verse, Chorus, Middle eight, Chorus
Great when you have a strong motif or chant in the intro that returns as a memorable anchor later.
Write a Chorus That Is a Promise and a Punch
The chorus is the part people will hum in the shower and text to their ex. Keep it between one and three lines. Use plain language. Make the title live in the chorus. Here is a tiny recipe.
- Say your core promise plainly in one line.
- Repeat or paraphrase for emphasis.
- Add a twist or consequence in the last line.
Example chorus draft
I will not call. I put the number behind my songs. I sleep with my phone facing the wall and pretend it is quiet.
See what happened. The first line is the promise. The second line repeats and grounds it in a small action. The third line provides a detail that adds color and reality. This is the level of craft you want.
Verses That Show Not Tell
Verses are scenes. Each verse should add one specific detail that deepens the promise. Use objects, time stamps, small actions. Replace the sentence I feel sad with a picture. Move your listener into a room with coordinates.
Before and after example
Before: I feel like I lost myself.
After: I buy a medium coffee and forget which cup was mine at the counter.
The after line gives a tiny visual that implies loss without naming it. That is the power. The listener fills in the emotion. This is economy.
Pre Chorus as the Tension Builder
Use the pre chorus to raise the energy physically and lyrically. Shorter words, faster rhythm and a melodic climb make the chorus feel earned. The pre chorus is where you point to the chorus without saying it directly. If your chorus is about not calling, the pre chorus can be the mental argument that almost breaks the promise.
Rhyme Choices That Sound Modern
Rhyme choice matters less than rhythm and stress. Perfect rhymes can feel corny if overused. Blend perfect rhymes with family rhymes which means similar vowel or consonant sounds without exact match. Internal rhymes and slant rhymes add musicality without being obvious.
Family rhyme example
late, stay, safe, taste, take. These words share sonic families and give you freedom. Use a perfect rhyme at the emotional turn for extra weight.
Prosody: Say It Out Loud and Match the Beat
Prosody means aligning natural speech stresses with the strong beats of your melody. If you sing IMPORTANT on a quick weak beat the line will feel odd even if the words are brilliant. The fix is simple. Speak the line casually and mark the syllable you would stress. That syllable should land on a musical strong beat or get a long note. If it does not, change the line or change the melody. Trust your mouth.
Prosody exercise
Read the line aloud at conversation speed. Clap for the natural stresses. Now sing the line over your chord loop and check whether claps land on musical downbeats. If they do not, adjust.
Melody and Lyrics: Friends Not Frenemies
Lyrics want to be sung. Test lines by singing them on vowels. Use a vowel pass which means singing nonsense vowels until a melody gesture appears. Then add words that fit the gesture. The best songs are where melody and lyric feel inevitable to one another.
Topline method
- Record two minutes of vowel singing over a loop. Do not think about words.
- Mark the gestures you would repeat and the moment that feels like the hook.
- Add a short phrase that fits the gesture. Keep words conversational.
- Do a prosody check and fix stressed syllables to match strong beats.
Imagery That Makes Listeners See
Write details like you are setting a film frame. Objects, colors and small actions create memory anchors. Replace abstractions with things you can touch. If you write bad lines, we will call them fog. Yuck. Replace fog with specific items.
Fog line
I am lonely without you.
Specific line
The second toothbrush stares from the glass. I brush with the handle while the water runs cold.
Which one do you remember? The second one is also weirder and therefore better. Keep the weird items. They make songs feel owned.
Metaphor and Simile: Use Sparingly and Get Creative
Metaphor is a tool that should be used like hot sauce. Too little and the food is bland. Too much and you ruin the taco. One bold metaphor can carry an entire chorus. Avoid mixing metaphors in the same line because that confuses the brain. Keep it tight.
Good metaphor example
I pocketed the moon and sold it to the thrift store of my regrets.
This is a heightened image. Use it where the song deserves drama. Do not do this every line unless you are writing a very dramatic late night ballad with candles and regret journals.
Editing: The Crime Scene Pass
This is ruthless work and the part most people skip. Do not skip it. Print your lyric or put it on a screen and perform these edits.
- Underline abstract words. Replace each with a concrete detail.
- Delete any line that explains rather than shows.
- Check prosody. If a strong word falls on a weak beat, move it or rewrite the line.
- Cut words that are doing the job twice. Redundancy is slow.
- Swap being verbs like am, is, are for action verbs where possible.
Example crime scene
Before: I am hurting because you left and I do not know what to do.
After: I scrape your initials off the back of my phone with a paper clip and call it progress.
See the shift. The after line gives action and image and does the emotional work without the phrase I am hurting.
Micro Prompts to Write Faster
Speed finds truth. Try these timed drills. Set your phone for the given time and do not stop until it buzzes. No editing. No perfection. Deliver raw lines.
- Object drill. Ten minutes. Pick an object in the room and write four lines where the object moves or speaks.
- Time stamp drill. Five minutes. Write a chorus that includes a specific time like 3 13 a.m. and a day like Saturday. Use that time like a character.
- Dialogue drill. Five minutes. Write two lines as if you are answering a text from someone who almost broke you. Keep punctuation natural.
- Vowel pass. Two minutes. Sing on ah and oo and mark the moments where your voice wants to return. Those are your hooks.
Co Writing and Collaboration
Many of the biggest songs were written by more than one person. Co writing can save you from getting stuck and give you access to new ears. Be honest about what you want. Bring a chorus draft or a melody idea and ask for help with one thing. Do not bring a parade of hypothetical changes. Work with people who push you but also respect your voice. Contracts exist to keep splits fair. If you do not know how to split royalties, talk to someone who does before you split a song into a group text fight.
Quick terminologies explained
- PRO means Performing Rights Organization. These are groups that collect public performance royalties when your song is played on radio, streaming services, live venues and other public spaces. Examples are BMI, ASCAP and SESAC. If you are a songwriter in the United States you choose one of these to register with because they collect money when your song is performed publicly.
- Mechanical royalties are payments for reproduction of your song. When a song is sold or streamed, mechanical royalties are owed for the composition. The publisher or admin company usually collects these and pays you after taking a fee. Mechanical royalties are different from performance royalties which are collected by your PRO.
- Sync is short for synchronization license which means placing your song with moving images such as TV shows, films, ads or video games. Sync deals can pay nicely but require awareness about who controls the master recording and the composition rights. If you wrote the song you control the composition unless you assigned it to a publisher.
- Topline means the sung melody and words that go on top of a track. If you hear a producer send a beat and you add a topline you wrote the melody and lyrics that are the vocal part of the track.
Protecting Your Work
Write, record and timestamp. You can register copyrights with the government in many countries. In the United States you register with the United States Copyright Office. Registration gives you legal standing in disputes. Also register songs with your PRO and set up a publishing split if you have collaborators. Simple agreements avoid messy fights later. If you are in a hurry, send an email to yourself with the lyric in the body and keep the timestamp. That is not a perfect legal shield but it is proof of concept in early stages. Do professional registration when you are ready to release.
Finish the Lyric and Make a Demo
A demo does not need to be perfect. It needs to communicate melody, lyric, and rhythm. You can record into your phone with a simple guitar or a chord loop from your laptop. Sing clearly. Do at least two passes. During the first pass sing conversationally. During the second pass lean into performance and add small ad libs. Export a clean file and share it with two trusted listeners. Ask one clear question. Which line stuck with you. That question gives focused feedback and avoids a million conflicting opinions.
Release Checklist for Your Lyric
- Lyric locked. Run the crime scene pass and confirm the chorus is tight and the title appears as sung.
- Melody locked. Confirm the chorus sits higher than the verse in range and energy.
- Form locked. Write a one page map of sections with timestamps. First chorus within sixty seconds if possible.
- Record a simple demo. Keep it vocal forward and uncluttered.
- Register the song with your PRO and the copyright office if you plan to publish it commercially.
- Decide splits with collaborators in writing and register the splits with your PRO or admin company.
Examples You Can Steal and Rewrite
Theme: Letting go of a habit that used to feel like love
Verse: The coffee mugs still wear your lipstick at seven. I wash one and set it in the sink tonight to see if the soap remembers you.
Pre chorus: I rehearse excuses like a play. The lines all go to the part where I do not call.
Chorus: I will not call. I put the charger in a different room. I sleep with the curtains open and let someone else find the stars.
Theme: New confidence the morning after a small victory
Verse: The elevator says twenty three and my shoes decide to stop looking for someone else. I fix the strap and stand like rent is due tomorrow.
Chorus: I am finally on time for myself. I say my name like it has been rewritten in bright marker. Come look if you must, I already bought a ticket.
Common Mistakes and How To Fix Them
- Too many ideas. Fix by picking one emotional promise and making all lines serve it.
- Vague language. Fix by swapping abstractions for specific objects and actions.
- Chorus that does not lift. Fix by raising range, widening rhythm, and simplifying language.
- Verse that repeats the chorus. Fix by making the verse add new information or a smaller detail that the chorus interprets.
- Bad prosody. Fix by speaking lines at normal speed and aligning natural stress with strong musical beats.
How To Keep Improving
Write every day even if it is one line. Do timed drills and carry a small notebook. Study lyrics you love like you are investigating a crime. Ask why a line works and how it could be better. Sing everything you write. The mouth will tell the truth about singability. Seek honest feedback and act on patterns rather than opinions. If three people tell you the chorus is forgettable, believe them. If one person tells you a line is weirdly brilliant, test it on five more people and then keep it if it wins.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I do not consider myself a natural lyricist
Talent helps but craft matters more. Use the timed drills and the crime scene edits. Practice specific tasks like writing one vivid object or creating a chorus in five minutes. Craft scales with deliberate repetition. You will get better. Also believe that your life is a vault of lines. You just need to unlock it with practice and caffeine.
How do I avoid clichés in lyrics
Replace clichés with specific images that belong to you. If you find yourself writing classic phrases like my heart is broken, stop and ask what physical action shows that feeling. Use a camera pass. If you cannot imagine a shot for the line, rewrite it. Novelty is less about being weird and more about being specific.
When should I write lyrics versus melody first
Either works. If you are focused on words, write lyrics and then find a melody that fits. If melody comes first you can fit words into the melodic shapes using the prosody checks. Many writers do a vowel pass on melody and then add words. The important thing is to test your line by speaking it and singing it. If it lives in both, you are winning.
How do I write a hook that people remember
Make the hook short, repeatable and emotionally clear. Use everyday language. Put the title in the hook and place it on a long note or a strong beat. Repeat it. Consider a post chorus chant that repeats a single line or syllable to create an earworm. Keep the hook singable by mouth and by memory.
What is prosody and why does it matter
Prosody is the way words naturally stress in speech and how those stresses align with musical beats. It matters because misaligned stress makes lines feel awkward even when the words are good. Record yourself speaking the line and mark the stresses. Those must line up with the strong musical beats. If they do not, rewrite the line or change the melody until they do.
Should I worry about rhyming perfectly
No. Perfect rhymes are fine but can sound childish if everything rhymes perfectly. Use slant rhymes, internal rhymes and family rhymes to create interest. Use a perfect rhyme at the emotional turn for emphasis. Focus on rhythm and stress before you focus on rhyme.
How do I register a song and get paid for it
Register your song with your Performing Rights Organization or PRO which stands for Performing Rights Organization. In the United States examples are BMI, ASCAP and SESAC. Register the composition and the splits if you have co writers. Also consider registering with the copyright office for stronger legal standing. For streams and sales you will need to set up mechanical royalty collection which can be done via a publisher or an admin service. For sync placements you will negotiate sync licenses through publishers and rights holders.
How many words should a chorus be
Less is usually better. Aim for one to three lines. Keep it tight. The chorus should be easy to sing back. If your chorus has five long sentences, cut it down to the emotional core. Repetition can provide length while keeping memory easy.