Songwriting Advice
How to Write Songs About Reunion
Reunion songs are emotional grenades wrapped in glitter. They can make people cry on the highway, dance in a kitchen, or awkwardly hug an ex at a party. A reunion song can be a tender catch up, a dramatic blowout, or a nostalgic hand squeeze. This guide gives you everything you need to write reunion songs that feel true, catchy, and impossible to forget.
Quick Links to Useful Sections
- What is a reunion song
- Pick an angle and stick to it
- Common reunion song types and how to write each
- Romantic reunion
- Friendship reunion
- Family reunion
- Band reunion
- Structure templates you can steal
- Structure A: Memory to Present to Reckoning
- Structure B: Two Point of View Dialogue
- Structure C: Montage Map
- Write a chorus that lands like a warm punch
- Prosody and why it will make or break your reunion song
- Topline and melody hacks
- Harmony choices that support reunion vibes
- Lyric devices that make reunion songs feel cinematic
- Time crumbs
- Object focus
- List escalation
- Callback
- Rhyme strategies for reunion lyrics
- Be specific or get ghosted
- Crime scene edit for reunion lyrics
- Hook variations for reunion songs
- Production ideas that support the narrative
- Examples of opening lines that hook
- Dialogue song technique
- Melody diagnostics for vocalists
- Common mistakes and how to fix them
- Lyric writing drills specifically for reunion songs
- The Object Echo Drill
- The Time Crumb Drill
- The Dialogue Card Drill
- Title ideas and how to pick one
- Publishing and pitching reunion songs
- Terms and acronyms explained
- Real life example and before after lines
- Finish fast workflow for songs about reunion
- FAQ
- Action plan you can use right now
Everything here is written for artists who want to say something real and get it stuck in listeners' ears. We will cover choosing an angle, building narrative beats, crafting a chorus that lands like a warm slap, melody and prosody tricks, harmonic palettes, structure templates to steal, lyric drills, production ideas, and how to pitch your song for sync in movies and shows. We explain every term and acronym so you are never left guessing. We also include brutal practical exercises you can use today.
What is a reunion song
A reunion song is any song about coming back together after time apart. It can be romantic, platonic, familial, or epic band reunion energy. Reunion songs are about transition. They sit on the line between memory and possibility. The emotional spine is usually longing, relief, regret, joy, or a messy mixture of those.
Real life scenarios for reunion songs
- You run into your first love at a grocery store ten years later and both of you have a different laugh.
- A band that broke up in college decides to play one benefit show and remembers what made them dangerous.
- Two siblings who drifted apart reconnect at a parent s funeral and trade small confessions over coffee.
- Friends who grew up together meet at a thirty party and realize the same jokes still land.
Pick an angle and stick to it
If your song tries to be every reunion it becomes none. Pick a single emotional idea. That is your core promise. The rest of the song exists to service that promise. Say your core promise aloud in one sentence like you are texting a friend. No metaphor. No drama. Keep it specific.
Examples of core promises
- I am sorry and I want you to know how sorry I am.
- We were young and broke but we were free and tonight we remember that.
- I did not know if seeing you again would hurt or heal and it did both at once.
- We show up for each other now in ways we could not before.
Turn that sentence into a short title. If the title can be texted or screamed, it has teeth.
Common reunion song types and how to write each
Romantic reunion
Emotion: bittersweet, vulnerable, charged.
Key props: the old jacket, the bar stool, a name whispered wrong and then right.
Lyric strategy: Use first person and sensory details that map to memory. Show small rituals that survived time. Avoid generic lines like I still love you unless the image makes it fresh.
Example hook seed
I keep your hoodie in the back of my closet. It smells like the city in April.
Friendship reunion
Emotion: nostalgic, celebratory, ironic.
Key props: a mixtape, a bench, inside jokes, the old steering wheel covered in stickers.
Lyric strategy: Mix humor with tenderness. Use list escalation where each item gets more ridiculous and then sincere.
Example hook seed
We parked at the old stoplight and laughed until the traffic forgave us.
Family reunion
Emotion: complicated, tender, sometimes explosive.
Key props: a family recipe, the attic, a folded photograph, a voicemail from a holiday.
Lyric strategy: Small domestic details ground big emotions. Use time crumbs, like dates, ages, or holiday names to anchor the scene.
Example hook seed
We fold the tablecloth the way she taught us and pretend the past fits the fold.
Band reunion
Emotion: triumphant, reflective, raw.
Key props: the amp with taped knob, a beat up bus, the first lyric scrawled on a napkin.
Lyric strategy: Use performance imagery. Talk about rituals like tuning, the smell of the room, the crowd breath. Keep verbs active.
Example hook seed
We plug back in and for one hour none of the promises we broke matter.
Structure templates you can steal
Reunion songs often work best when they tell a small story. Here are three reliable structures with their intended emotional arc.
Structure A: Memory to Present to Reckoning
Verse one sets the memory. Pre chorus increases the ache. Chorus describes the reunion moment. Verse two adds present detail and reveals. Bridge gives new perspective. Final chorus expands.
Structure B: Two Point of View Dialogue
Verse one is one voice. Verse two is the other voice. Chorus is the shared feeling or the moment they both realize something. Use call and response lines to create intimacy.
Structure C: Montage Map
Quick verses that jump through a series of small scenes. Chorus is a single emotional anchor that interprets the montage. Great for friendship and family reunions where many small moments matter.
Write a chorus that lands like a warm punch
The chorus is the contract. It must promise the emotional payoff you are delivering. Keep it short, repeatable, and concrete. Use ring phrase technique where the chorus opens and closes with the same short line or word. That repetition makes singers sing along instantly.
Chorus recipe for reunion songs
- State the reunion moment in plain words. For example I walked into the room and you were there.
- Give one small consequence or twist. For example I laughed instead of crying or You kept your old laugh.
- Repeat a short phrase or word so listeners can latch on. For example Youre still here.
Example chorus
You re here and the bar light bends like proof. You re here and my phone stops trying to call you. You re here and I do not know what to say so I say your name.
Prosody and why it will make or break your reunion song
Prosody means making sure the natural stress of words fits the music. If the important word falls on a weak beat the line feels wrong even if the listener cannot explain why. Test every line by speaking it like normal conversation. Circle the stressed syllables. Then place those syllables on strong beats or longer notes in your melody.
Example prosody fail
I still miss you on Tuesdays. If you sing still on a quick weak beat it will feel off. Say it out loud and rewrite until the natural stress lands on the musical strong beat.
Topline and melody hacks
Topline means the melody and lyrics sung over your track. For reunion songs, the topline should feel conversational but melodic. Use these topline hacks.
- Vowel pass. Sing on pure vowels over the chords until you find a gesture that wants words. Record it. This keeps you away from clich and lets melody lead.
- Leap then settle. Use a small leap into the emotional word like a title and then step downward. The leap creates urgency and the step feels intimate.
- Range contrast. Put the chorus slightly higher than the verse to create lift. Higher does not mean loud. It means higher notes that make the ear register difference.
- Rhythmic contrast. If verses are talky, make the chorus rhythm wider and more sustained. If verses are sparse, give the chorus bounce.
Harmony choices that support reunion vibes
Harmony sets the mood. Reunion songs often live in the emotional gray area between major and minor. Use these palettes.
- Major with a borrowed minor chord for ache. Play a major progression and sneak in a minor iv chord to introduce nostalgia without full sadness.
- Relative minor lift. Start in a minor verse for reflection and switch to major for the chorus to signal arrival or relief.
- Pedal tones. Hold a bass note while chords change to create a sense of grounding under shifting feelings.
- Suspensions. Use sus4 chords resolving to major to mirror unresolved feelings resolving into reunion.
Lyric devices that make reunion songs feel cinematic
Time crumbs
Small references to time anchor memory. Use things like the year, an age, a season, a time of day. Example: It was July and the ice cream truck still played the same broken march.
Object focus
Objects are emotional shorthand. An old mixtape, a chipped mug, a ticket stub. Pick one object and return to it. It becomes a memory anchor.
List escalation
Use three items that build intensity. Example: We drank the cheap wine, laughed in the cheap light, danced on the cheap floor until the cheap cards felt priceless.
Callback
Bring a line from verse one back in verse two with one changed word. It shows time has moved without overt explanation.
Rhyme strategies for reunion lyrics
Perfect rhymes are fine. Overdoing them makes lyrics sound childish. Mix perfect rhymes with family rhymes and internal rhymes. Family rhyme means similar vowels or consonants without exact match. Use internal rhymes in verses to create a conversational flow.
Example family chain
late, lane, say, stay. These share vowel or consonant families and help lines feel connected without obvious endings.
Be specific or get ghosted
Vagueness is the enemy of reunion songs. Replace abstract words like memories, love, and feelings with concrete images you can see or hold. If you write I remember, show the thing remembered. For example I remember your cigarette smoke on the blue baseball cap.
Crime scene edit for reunion lyrics
Every verse should survive this. Print your verse and perform these actions.
- Circle every abstract word. Replace it with a concrete detail.
- Mark any extra explanation and cut it unless it adds a new emotion.
- Look for being verbs like am, is, are. Replace with action verbs if possible.
- Make sure the last line of the verse is a hook that moves into the pre chorus or chorus.
Hook variations for reunion songs
You do not need a one line chorus every time. Here are options.
- Title Chorus. The title repeated with minor variation each repeat.
- Narrative Chorus. A short story beat that captures the reunion moment like a snapshot.
- Chant Post Chorus. One word or short phrase repeated to create an earworm moment after the chorus.
Production ideas that support the narrative
Production is storytelling with texture. Use sound to highlight the reunion moment.
- Intro memory motif. A lo fi guitar or tape hiss in the verse to signal memory. Remove it on the chorus to make the present feel immediate.
- Space build. Use reverb and delay on memories and tighten the room on present moments to create intimacy.
- Instrument reveals. Add a warm string pad or organ when the chorus hits to signal emotional arrival.
- Live elements. For band reunion songs, record a single live pass to capture the crackle of people playing together. Small imperfections make authenticity.
Examples of opening lines that hook
The first line should put the listener on a playground. Here are quick starters you can steal and flip.
- The corner table still has your coffee ring and your handwriting on the napkin says sorry.
- I saw you from the wrong side of the street and for a second the light brought us back together.
- We squeezed into the van like the seats remembered us and the road remembered the route.
- Mom folded my old t shirt and handed it like a truce.
Dialogue song technique
Dialogue can be devastatingly effective for reunion songs. Write two short verses as two speakers. Let the chorus be the truth both cannot say alone. Make sure each voice has distinct diction. One voice might be blunt and clipped. The other might use poetic fragments. The contrast creates drama.
Melody diagnostics for vocalists
If your melody does not feel honest, check these things.
- Are the stressed syllables landing on strong beats? Fix the phrasing until they do.
- Does the chorus sit higher than the verse? If not, move it up a third or a fifth and see how it changes emotional weight.
- Is the melody comfortable to sing in your chest voice? Reunion songs benefit from chest warmth. Avoid overstuffing with falsetto unless the voice needs fragility.
- Does the melody breathe where the lyric needs to breathe? Add rests where a listener needs to catch meaning.
Common mistakes and how to fix them
- Too many ideas. Fix by committing to one emotional promise and let other details orbit it.
- All exposition and no image. Fix by swapping telling for showing with one object and one action per verse.
- Chorus that repeats the verse. Fix by making the chorus a different emotional register. If the verse is reflective, make the chorus arrive like a present tense confession.
- Rushed prosody. Fix by speaking lines and aligning stresses to beats. If a line is slippery, rewrite for natural speech.
Lyric writing drills specifically for reunion songs
The Object Echo Drill
Pick one object connected to the person or group. Write three lines where the object does something different each time. Time yourself for ten minutes. This creates image momentum and reveals new angles.
The Time Crumb Drill
Write a verse where every second line has a time crumb. For example Monday, August, midnight. The tactic forces you into details and avoids vague nostalgia.
The Dialogue Card Drill
Write two panels of four lines. Panel A is what you want to say. Panel B is what you actually say. This makes the song honest and dramatic.
Title ideas and how to pick one
Your title must be singable and searchable. Avoid long poetic phrases unless one line is highly quotable. Test the title in three ways.
- Say it out loud. Does it roll off the tongue?
- Sing it on a single sustained vowel. Is it comfortable?
- Search it. Does it return a thousand unrelated hits that will bury your song? If yes, add a small specific like a place or a year.
Examples
- You re Here
- Back on Booth Street
- The Van Remembered
- Folded Tablecloth
Publishing and pitching reunion songs
Reunion songs are sync gold. TV shows, films, and ads love the emotional hurt and payoff of reunion scenes. Here is how to pitch.
- Prepare a short pitch email. One sentence who you are, one sentence why this song fits their show or film beat, and a link to a clean rough mix. Keep it professional and human.
- Target music supervisors. A music supervisor is the person who sources songs for visual media. Build a list of supervisors who work on shows with reunion scenes like coming of age dramas or family series.
- Register your songs with your performing rights organization. That includes ASCAP, BMI, or SESAC if you are in the United States. These organizations collect performance royalties. If you are outside the US, look for SOCAN, PRS, APRA or your local society. If you are unsure, check their websites. Registering matters for sync payments and performance royalty splits.
- Keep stems ready. If a supervisor likes the song they will ask for stems meaning separate tracks like vocals, guitar, and drums. Stems let the editor tailor the soundtrack to the scene.
Terms and acronyms explained
- BPM means beats per minute. It is the tempo of your song. Faster BPM often feels more excited. Slower BPM feels more reflective.
- Topline refers to melody and lyrics sung over the track. It is the vocal idea that people remember.
- Prosody means matching natural speech stress to musical stress. It keeps lyrics feeling natural.
- Sync or synchronization license means licensing a song to visual media like film, TV, or ads. Sync deals are separate from streaming royalties and can be lucrative.
- RPO stands for performing rights organization. Examples include ASCAP and BMI in the United States. They collect royalties for public performances like radio plays or streaming. If you do not register, you may miss money.
- Stems are individual audio tracks from a mix. Having stems ready speeds up sync licensing and remix work.
Real life example and before after lines
Theme Romantic reunion at a wedding of a mutual friend
Before: I saw you at the wedding and felt a lot of feelings.
After: You were laughing with someone else and the bouquet landed in my lap like a minor miracle.
Theme Band reunion for one night only
Before: We got back on stage and it was fun.
After: We tuned the same broken amp and the first chord broke the room open like a promise we remembered how to keep.
Finish fast workflow for songs about reunion
- Write one sentence core promise. Turn it into a title. Keep it short.
- Choose a structure from above that fits your story. Map your sections with time targets.
- Make a two chord loop and perform a vowel pass for topline ideas. Record the best three gestures.
- Write verse one with one object, one time crumb, and one action. Run the crime scene edit.
- Draft the chorus using the chorus recipe and repeat a ring phrase.
- Record a quick demo. Listen for prosody issues. Fix until the natural speech fits the beat.
- Seek two honest listeners and ask one question. What line stuck with you? Fix only what improves clarity.
- If you plan to pitch to sync, prepare stems and register the song with your rights organization.
FAQ
What makes a reunion song different from a breakup song
A reunion song focuses on reentry into relationship territory rather than severing ties. Reunion songs live in the tension between past history and present choice. Breakup songs often close the door. Reunion songs open it and ask what comes next. Reunion songs can include guilt, relief, humor, and nostalgia in tight combinations. They need specifics to feel true.
What tempo should a reunion song be
There is no single tempo rule. Romantic reunions often sit slow to mid tempo between 60 and 90 beats per minute for intimacy. Friendship and band reunion songs can thrive in mid to upbeat tempos from 90 to 130 BPM to capture celebration. Pick the tempo that suits the emotional frame and test the topline at different tempos to see which one feels most honest.
How do I avoid sounding cheesy when writing about reunion
Cheese comes from vague emotion and cliché images. Avoid broad statements and use small concrete details. Add a specific object, a time crumb, or an odd action. Let humor or self awareness undercut the melodrama if the song wants to stay grounded. Keep vocals honest. Over production can also create melodrama. Let space exist.
Can I write a reunion song about a lost loved one
Yes. Reunion does not require physical return. It can be inner reconciliation. For songs about someone who has passed, use memory as the meeting place. Create scenes where the singer performs small acts that feel like reunion such as putting on a jacket, smelling a cologne, or listening to a voicemail. Respect the subject with specificity and restraint.
Should I use a key change in a reunion song
A key change can signal emotional lift but it is not required. If the chorus already has melodic lift and arrangement changes that create an arrival, you do not need a key change. Save key changes for the final chorus if you want an extra adrenaline shot. Make sure the key change serves the lyric. If it feels like a stunt, skip it.
How do I write a duet reunion song
Give each singer distinct vocabulary and rhythms. Use verses for perspective and chorus for shared feeling. Consider overlapping lines in the bridge where both voices speak at once to simulate the confusion and relief of meeting again. Keep the arrangement roomy to let voices breathe and make the duet feel conversational.
Action plan you can use right now
- Write one sentence core promise. Turn it into a title of three words or fewer.
- Pick Structure A, B, or C. Map verse chorus times so the first chorus is under a minute.
- Choose one object and one time crumb. Draft a verse around those in ten minutes using the Object Echo Drill.
- Do a vowel pass over a two chord loop for two minutes. Capture the top three gestures and pick one for the chorus.
- Record a rough demo. Send it to two people and ask what line stuck with them. Fix only that line and nothing else.