Songwriting Advice
How to Write Lyrics About Communication
Communication is messy and dramatic and perfect for songs. People fall in love with what they hear and what they do not hear. They remember the words that landed and the silence that echoed louder than any chorus. If you can write about talking, texting, not replying, misunderstandings, and the little signals humans send when they mean everything or nothing you have a goldmine of emotional material.
Quick Links to Useful Sections
- Why communication makes great lyric material
- Core emotional angles to explore
- Explain the modern vocabulary so your lyrics land
- Choose a perspective and keep it tight
- Lyric devices that make communication songs hit
- Call and response
- Found text
- Subtext
- Time crumbs
- Object as witness
- Ring phrase
- Concrete verbs not feelings
- Prosody and melody for conversational lyrics
- Structures that support communication stories
- Structure A: Build to the reply
- Structure B: Conversation snapshots
- Structure C: Time jump montage
- Specific prompts and timed exercises
- Examples you can model and rewrite
- Theme: Ghosting
- Theme: Misheard meaning
- Theme: Voicemail memory
- Short chorus drafts to inspire
- How to make a title that carries a communication song
- Real life scenarios with lyric blueprints
- Scenario one: The late night text you should not have sent
- Scenario two: The relationship that exists in texts
- Scenario three: The aftermath of a scolding voice message
- Common mistakes writers make and how to fix them
- Production and arrangement ideas to underline theme
- How to pitch and place songs about communication
- Title bank and lyric prompts you can steal now
- Finish faster with a simple workflow
- Pop culture examples and what to steal from them
- Common questions songwriters ask about this topic
- Can I use brand names like Instagram or WhatsApp in lyrics
- How do I avoid sounding like I am writing a PSA about phones
- Is referencing texts and apps going to date the song
- Lyric writing checklist before you finish
- FAQ
This guide gives you practical templates, exercises, and examples so you can write lyrics that feel true and singable. We will break down the topic into clear emotional beats, show you lyric devices that hit hard, and give you real life scenarios to steal and twist. We explain terms like DM and SMS so you do not have to guess the slang when you write. By the end you will have several chorus drafts, verse blueprints, and a clear plan to finish a song about human connection or its absence.
Why communication makes great lyric material
Communication is the engine of relationships. It is where desire is declared, where pride gets tested, and where small choices become long memories. Songs about communication capture the universal drama of trying to reach another person and the internal weather that happens while you wait for a reply.
- It is relatable. Everyone has been ghosted, misread, or misheard.
- It is specific. Text threads, voicemail tones, read receipts, and misaligned timing give you concrete details that feel cinematic.
- It is musical. Call and response, question and answer, and interruptions are natural shapes for melody and rhythm.
These are your writing tools. Use them like weapons or like glue. Either will make the listener lean in.
Core emotional angles to explore
Start by picking one emotional core. Communication can be shown as many things. Keep the song focused on one central promise. This is the emotional thesis your chorus will state in a line people can text back later.
- Longing for a person you can only reach through screens or bad timing.
- Anger at being ignored or gaslighted.
- Relief when a message finally lands and changes everything.
- Confusion from crossed signals and mixed messages.
- Regret for the words you sent while tipsy or tired.
- Triumph when silence becomes your power move.
Write one sentence that captures the feeling in plain speech. Example: I will not text first again. Turn that line into a title or a chorus seed. Short is good. Sharp is better.
Explain the modern vocabulary so your lyrics land
Using modern communication details makes songs feel immediate. Still explain jargon when it matters so listeners do not get lost. Here are common terms and quick explanations you can use or adapt into your lines.
- DM means direct message. It is a private message on a social app like Instagram or Twitter. It sounds private and loaded. Example lyric detail: The blue DM bubble never changed.
- SMS stands for short message service. This is the old school text message system. Mentioning it can feel analog and tactile. Example detail: The SMS tone cuts the kitchen quiet.
- Read receipt is a notification that shows you the other person opened the message. That little word is a wolf. It can be a proof of being seen or a weapon. Example lyric detail: The read receipt eats the rest of my sentence.
- Voicemail captures breath and stumbles. People keep voicemails like evidence. Example lyric detail: Your voice stumbles in my old voicemail like a drunk confession.
- Ghosting is when someone stops replying with no explanation. It is abandonment dressed up as a failed Wi Fi signal. Example lyric detail: They ghosted like a ghost with an attitude.
- Call and response is a musical technique where one line answers another. It maps naturally to conversational lyrics. Use it to mimic actual talk in a song.
Translating tech into texture lets you paint modern scenes without feeling like a glossary. Use one device and make it feel symbolic. A read receipt can be a character in your song. A voicemail can be a time machine.
Choose a perspective and keep it tight
First person gives immediacy. Second person can feel like confrontation or direct address. Third person allows observation and irony. Decide who is speaking and do not slide between perspectives without a good reason. If you swap perspective, signal it clearly with a musical or production change so the listener does not get vertigo.
Real life example: A verse in first person can describe sending a drunk text at 2 AM. The chorus in second person can repeat the words you wish someone had said back. That back and forth is a theatrical trick. Use it sparingly.
Lyric devices that make communication songs hit
Here are specific devices you will use again and again. Each one comes with a quick explanation and a short example you can steal or twist.
Call and response
One line asks or states. The next line answers or contradicts. This mirrors real conversation and creates a musical pattern that listeners catch quickly.
Example
Verse line: I sent you a map of my apartment. Chorus reply: You never learned how to read me.
Found text
Use actual screenshots, voicemail fragments, or quoted text as lyric material. Found text feels authentic because it sounds like someone you know. When you use it, make sure it reads well when sung.
Example
Chorus: Sorry not sorry. I forgot to say I was leaving. It reads like a bad receipt but it was yours.
Subtext
Say one thing and mean another. Real life conversations are full of this. Subtext is where a lyric becomes clever and painful. Your chorus can say I am fine while the verses show the evidence it is a lie.
Example
Verse: I put the kettle on. I leave it empty. Chorus: I am fine.
Time crumbs
Give the listener a clock. Times and dates are tiny details that anchor a story and make it feel true. They are also easy to sing if you pick rhythms that match speech patterns.
Example
Verse: Eleven twenty three, blue light on the screen. Chorus: Hello at midnight feels like confession.
Object as witness
Objects witness conversations like a stage crew. Use mugs, keys, headphones, charging cables, and screens as evidence. A single object used over three lines can carry a whole emotional arc.
Example
Verse: Your hoodie still hangs like a caution sign. Bridge: The charger hums where you used to plug in.
Ring phrase
Start and end a section with the same line to make the message stick. For communication songs this often works as a title repeated in the chorus. The ring phrase feels like a ping in the ear.
Example
Chorus: I will not reply. I will not reply. I will not reply when you say my name like an accident.
Concrete verbs not feelings
Show actions. Singing I slammed the door is stronger than I felt angry. Actions are specific and cinematic.
Example
Verse before fix: I am angry. Verse after fix: I slam your name into the search bar and press delete.
Prosody and melody for conversational lyrics
Prosody is how words fit with melody. Speak your lines at conversation speed. Circle the natural stresses. Those stresses are your musical landing pads. If a strong syllable sits on a weak beat you will create tension that feels wrong rather than poetic.
Practical steps
- Read the line out loud at normal speed and mark the stressed syllable in each phrase.
- Tap a simple beat and place those stresses on the strong beats. If they do not fit, change the words or the rhythm.
- Keep phone text fragments short. Fragments often work better as rhythmic hooks than long clauses.
Example prosody tweak
Bad: I sent you a message at four AM about nothing big. Good: Sent the message at four AM. Notice how the good line puts the stress on four AM which is dramatic and natural.
Structures that support communication stories
Some story shapes work better for messaging drama. Pick one and map the story beats before you write. Here are three reliable forms with what each allows you to do.
Structure A: Build to the reply
This shape lets you show the wait and then deliver payoff when the reply comes. Use if your central moment is a message that finally arrives or never arrives and that absence matters.
- Verse shows sending the message and small details.
- Pre chorus increases anxiety with time crumbs and physical ticks.
- Chorus names the promise. The chorus can resolve or not resolve based on whether the reply comes.
- Bridge revisits the message with new understanding.
Structure B: Conversation snapshots
This shape is call and response across sections. Use alternating perspectives or alternating devices to mimic a real chat thread. It is great for duet style songs.
- Verse A is one voice. Verse B is the other voice.
- Chorus is the shared emotional center that both voices return to.
- Bridge can be an overheard voicemail or a third person narration that reframes the chat.
Structure C: Time jump montage
Use multiple time crumbs that show the thread of a communication over months or years. Each verse is a different timestamp. The chorus is the emotional truth that ties them together.
- Verse one at the beginning of the relationship.
- Verse two at a conflict.
- Verse three in the aftermath.
Specific prompts and timed exercises
Speed helps honesty. Use these micro exercises to draft fresh lines or to break writer block. Set a timer and do not edit while you write.
- Two minute text dump. Write a string of six texts you would send at 2 AM. Do not explain. Do not censor. Pick the best line and expand it.
- Object witness ten minute. Pick one object in your room and write ten lines about how that object knows the truth of a conversation.
- Read receipt drill five minute. Write five chorus options that use the phrase read receipt or seen in a metaphorical way.
- Reply missing ten minute. Write a verse about waiting for a reply. Use time crumbs every other line. Try to show physical reactions like chewing, checking, rechecking.
- Dialogue swap five minute. Write two lines as if you are answering a text in a voice memo. Keep punctuation natural and include a breath if helpful.
Examples you can model and rewrite
Start with a theme and then show before and after lines. Below are quick examples that you can adapt. Each shows one small edit that makes the language more concrete or singable.
Theme: Ghosting
Before: You left me on read and that hurt.
After: The blue dot ate my whole paragraph and left grease marks where your name used to be.
Theme: Misheard meaning
Before: We had a misunderstanding about us.
After: You said see you later like a promise. I saved it like a receipt and found it in the trash.
Theme: Voicemail memory
Before: I replay the voicemail sometimes.
After: I play your voicemail like an instrument. It is the only song that still gets me to sit still.
Short chorus drafts to inspire
Chorus draft 1
I typed I miss you. I watched it blue. The read receipt swallowed me whole. You did not know.
Chorus draft 2
Call me back if you want me to stay. But call me back at nine not at dawn. I do not answer apologies wrapped in morning breath.
Chorus draft 3
Your voicemail is a museum. I keep all the tickets. I still buy them even though the show was a lie.
How to make a title that carries a communication song
Titles for these songs should be short, vivid, and possibly double meaning. Pick a word or phrase that reads as both a tech detail and a human detail. That double reading gives the title life.
- Examples: Read Receipt, Left on Read, Voicemail, Typo, Delivered, Seen, Silent Ring, Last Blue Tick, Drafts, You Typing
Test your title by saying it in a text. If it could be sent as a message and still mean something you have a keeper.
Real life scenarios with lyric blueprints
Below are three scenarios with suggested verse and chorus blueprints. These are scaffolds. Fill them with your details and your voice.
Scenario one: The late night text you should not have sent
Blueprint
- Verse one: Set the scene. Name the night, the drink, the object, and the first impulsive sentence.
- Pre chorus: Show second thoughts. The read receipt blinks and you regret.
- Chorus: Confession with a twist. You say something honest and then qualify it with shame or humor.
- Bridge: The morning after, the damage or a petty victory.
Example lines
Verse: Two AM, the bar lights are an internal slideshow. I push a message half written like a paper plane.
Pre: My thumb hovers like a guilty witness. No read receipt yet but the room keeps replaying you.
Chorus: I said I love you like a dare. I said it like confetti falling in a room you left early.
Scenario two: The relationship that exists in texts
Blueprint
- Verse one: Show how the relationship is maintained through screenshots and playlist shares.
- Verse two: Show a scene that would be different if they were physically present.
- Chorus: The thesis that this is real even if the body is not.
- Bridge: A refusal to let the connection be reduced to pixels or a decision to meet in person.
Example lines
Verse: Sunday recipes forwarded, playlists with half our names. Your ringtone is a ghost in my living room.
Chorus: If loving you is a text thread, then I will keep scrolling. If loving you needs a room I will book one under a different name.
Scenario three: The aftermath of a scolding voice message
Blueprint
- Verse one: The moment you hear the voice message and the words that cut.
- Pre chorus: The physical aftermath like pacing and replaying.
- Chorus: The emotional reveal and the choice to answer or not.
- Bridge: A flashback to a softer message that complicates the anger.
Example lines
Verse: Your voicemail is a pile of ash. Every syllable falls like weather and leaves a dent in my mug.
Chorus: I do not want your apology packaged in static. I want the small kindness you used to forget on purpose.
Common mistakes writers make and how to fix them
Be ruthless with edits. Communication songs can become indulgent or too clever. Here are mistakes and quick fixes.
- Too many tech details. Fix by choosing one tech object and making it symbolic. Do not list every app you use.
- Talking without feeling. Fix by adding sensory detail. Show a shaking hand, a soda left warm, a glowing screen that looks like a face.
- Dialogue that reads like exposition. Fix by letting subtext do the work. Use fragments and pauses to suggest the unsaid.
- Prosody fails. Fix by speaking lines and aligning stressed syllables to strong beats. If it sounds weird to say, it will sound weird to sing.
- Overproofing the hook. Fix by simplifying. A chorus that is small and repeatable often has more sting than a paragraph of explanation.
Production and arrangement ideas to underline theme
Your production choices can enhance the communication theme. Use sound design to make the listener feel like they are inside a phone or inside a head.
- Use a notification sound as a rhythmic motif. Do not overuse it or it will feel like a ringtone cover. Use it tastefully to punctuate a line.
- Double vocals to imply two voices. A whispered double can sound like a text being typed under your breath.
- Use tape hiss or a phone line EQ on a vocal for a voicemail bridge. That lo fi texture reads as memory and distance.
- Silence is a production tool. A sudden one bar rest right before the chorus can feel like the missing reply and make the chorus land harder.
- Pan a conversation between left and right channels to simulate a chat thread. Keep it subtle so it does not feel gimmicky.
How to pitch and place songs about communication
These songs fit many moods. Here are practical markets and messaging ideas for your pitch.
- Sync placements. Songs about phones and messages work well in scenes that show relationships forming or dissolving. Tag your pitch with time of day for mood. Example tag line for a pitch: late night text song for a breakup montage.
- Pop and R B placements. Contemporary pop and rhythm and blues songs about communication can be radio ready with a simple hook and big chorus. Explain the hook in one sentence when you pitch. Editors like a one line hook summary they can text to a colleague.
- Indie placements. A lo fi voicemail song can become a needle drop in a drama. Emphasize the production idea in your pitch like a postcard: voicemail bridge with washed synths.
Title bank and lyric prompts you can steal now
Use these prompts and titles as starting points. Mix and match. Steal the ones that trigger a memory. Rewrite them until they fit your voice.
- Prompts
- Write a song where read receipt is the antagonist.
- Write a duet that is literally a series of unanswered texts and then a voice memo at the bridge.
- Write a song that uses voicemail verses and a sung chorus of the same line repeated like a stuck record.
- Title ideas
- Read Receipt
- Left on Read
- Voicemail Museum
- Typing
- Delivered
- Seen
- Silent Ring
- Drafts
Finish faster with a simple workflow
- Write one sentence that states the emotional promise. Example: I will not answer your calls at midnight anymore.
- Pick a signature object or tech device. Make it your microphone. Example: the read receipt will be the recurring image.
- Draft three-line chorus versions that use plain speech and repeat the title. Keep them short and singable.
- Draft a verse showing the scene with one time crumb and one object as witness. Use an action verb to carry meaning.
- Record a quick demo using your phone. Sing the chorus on one vowel to test melody and prosody. If it feels easy to sing it will be easier for listeners to remember.
- Ask two people to listen without explanation. Ask them what line they remember. If the remembered line is not your intended hook, revise until it is.
Pop culture examples and what to steal from them
There are many modern songs that toy with communication themes. Study them not to copy but to understand how small details become metaphors.
- Look for songs where the title is also a tech term. That double reading gives songs longevity.
- Notice how some songs use voicemail or recorded voice to change perspective. That technique creates an emotional distance you can use to your advantage.
- Observe the use of silence in breaks. A missing reply can act like a rest in music. It creates space the listener fills with memory.
Common questions songwriters ask about this topic
Can I use brand names like Instagram or WhatsApp in lyrics
Yes you can. Mentioning a well known app can make a lyric feel contemporary. Be mindful of legal issues if your song will be used in a commercial context. For streaming and album releases it is usually fine to name check apps. If you are pitching for sync consider neutral language like message or direct message to avoid potential clearance concerns. If you use a brand name as a metaphor, make sure it serves the lyric and is not just a stunt.
How do I avoid sounding like I am writing a PSA about phones
Do not moralize. Songs feel alive when they show a messy human choice. Focus on specific scenes and messy feelings rather than lecturing about screen time. Make the phone a witness not the villain. Let the person be the character and the device be the prop.
Is referencing texts and apps going to date the song
Maybe. Some references date a track quickly. But if your lyric uses those details to show universal emotion the song will survive. Use the tech as a portal into an eternal human moment like longing or pride. The device will mark the era but the feeling will last.
Lyric writing checklist before you finish
- Is the emotional promise stated in one line?
- Is there a concrete object or tech detail repeated as a motif?
- Do the stressed syllables land on musical strong beats when sung?
- Is the chorus short and repeatable?
- Does each verse add new information or a new camera angle?
- Have you cut any line that explains rather than shows?
FAQ
What are quick ways to make a chorus about texting stick
Keep the chorus to one to three short lines. Put the title or the tech detail on the strongest beat. Use a ring phrase that repeats the title at the start and end of the chorus. Make the melody easy to hum. Test it by singing it on an open vowel for two passes. If your friends can hum it back they will probably sing it in the shower.
How do I write a duet that captures a conversation
Treat each vocal as a character. Write short fragments for each side. Let the chorus be the shared emotional center that both voices return to. Use call and response as a structural device. Record a rough demo with two different timbres or panning to hear how the conversation reads. The contrast in tone helps the listener follow who is speaking without labeling every line.
Should I include the actual words from a text message in a song
Yes if they are strong and singable. Text fragments are powerful because they feel real. Keep them short. Use ellipses as musical rests in the melody. Avoid including long chains of texts unless you plan to sing them like a rap or spoken word section. Keep songs musical first and realistic second.
How do I avoid cliche when writing about read receipts and ghosting
Swap the expected image for a specific object or moment. Instead of saying my heart broke, show what broke. Use a small physical reaction. Think of a domestic detail turned symbolic like the second toothbrush or a mug that still has lipstick. Small evidence makes the emotional moment feel fresh.
Can I write a song that is funny about communication and still be respected
Absolutely. Humor is a shortcut to truth if it is honest. Use irony and exaggeration but anchor the joke in a real feeling so the listener can laugh and then nod. Jokes that come from self awareness land better than jokes that punch down. Keep the balance between wit and warmth.