Songwriting Advice
How To Come Up With A Song
You want an idea that does not die in the shower. You want an idea that survives the commute, the texts, and your cat stepping on your keyboard. You want a process you can use again and again. This guide gives you that process with exercises that actually work, real life scenarios so you can relate, and language that does not sound like it came from a songwriting textbook. We will teach you how to find ideas, make a memorable hook, build melody and lyrics that feel true, and finish the song so you can release it or pitch it without crying at midnight.
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Quick Links to Useful Sections
- Why you can come up with songs on demand
- Start with illness free rules for ideation
- Where ideas come from
- Everyday objects and scenes
- Small moments of tension or relief
- Odd phrases you overhear
- Change the point of view
- Capture tools and best practices
- Prompt bank to generate fresh seeds fast
- Turn seeds into a hook
- How to find a hook in one minute
- Topline explained and how to write one
- Melody building blocks
- Chord progressions and harmony basics
- Lyric craft that makes people feel seen
- Structure choices that guide the idea
- Beating writer s block and doubt
- Collaborative methods to find a song together
- Production and arrangement basics for song ideas
- Finish it quick with a reliable wrap method
- Practical exercises to come up with songs daily
- Object swap exercise
- Text thread chorus
- Melody vowel drill
- Examples you can steal and remix
- Seed one
- Seed two
- Common mistakes and quick fixes
- How to pitch an idea quickly
- Action plan you can use today
- Songwriting tools to know
- FAQ
Everything below is written for busy creatives who prefer results to theory. If you are a millennial or Gen Z artist who wants to laugh while learning, welcome home. Expect blunt examples, practical drills, and a little chaos. Also expect explanations for every term and acronym so nothing feels like a secret club password.
Why you can come up with songs on demand
Song ideas are not divine lightning. They are small moments of attention you expand. You do not need to wait for cosmic inspiration. You need processes that capture stray thoughts and turn them into something singable. Most great song ideas are everyday things given unusual framing. A smell, a traffic light, a wrong text, an overheard phrase, a memory that comes back when you hear a song. That is where the work begins.
Real life scenario
- You are doing laundry and your phone vibrates. The vibration sound in your pocket becomes a rhythmic idea. Two hours later you have a chorus hook that repeats like a text you will not send.
Start with illness free rules for ideation
Give yourself four simple constraints. Constraints force creativity. They are not punishment. They are your songwriting coach on a loud day.
- Time Set a five minute capture timer to write the raw idea.
- Object Pick one physical object that appears in the song idea.
- Emotion Name one clear emotional word like jealous, relieved, furious, or soft.
- Title Draft a working title in plain speech. The title is not an art statement. It is a hook for your memory.
Example prompt
- Time: five minutes
- Object: red umbrella
- Emotion: stubborn
- Title: I keep your umbrella
That is all you need to start. The rest is craft and sweat and a few good snacks.
Where ideas come from
There are common idea sources that always work. Know them, test them, and make them your routine. You will also want to carry a capture tool so the idea does not evaporate.
Everyday objects and scenes
Objects anchor songs. A phone, a coffee cup, a dented pen, a broken turn signal. These give the listener a camera shot instantly. Use concrete images instead of feelings. Show do not tell.
Scenario
- You are waiting for an ex to text back and you watch their hoodie dry on the radiator. The hoodie becomes a stand in for all the things left unsaid.
Small moments of tension or relief
Tension and release are drama in micro. An argument about leaving the light on becomes a metaphor for staying in a relationship. A small victory like getting through a hard day becomes a chorus about survival.
Odd phrases you overhear
People say gold lines in coffee shops. Write them down. A line like God did not text back is a candied idea that can turn into a title or a chorus.
Change the point of view
Tell the same story from the plant in the corner or from a voicemail left on a Tuesday. Changing the narrator creates novelty with minimal effort.
Capture tools and best practices
You need a system that catches ideas when they visit. Most writers fail at capture not at creativity. Your system should be effortless and fast.
- Phone voice memo Record a 10 second melody or lyric idea the second it shows up.
- Notes app Keep a notes file called Song Seeds. Add a one line description for each seed.
- Pocket notebook Some people still like paper. If you are one, keep a small notebook and a pen by your bed.
- Screenshot stash Save screenshots of texts, tweets, or overheard lines to a folder called Lyric Find.
Real life scenario
- At midnight you hum a melody into your phone and forget about it. Two days later you find the memo and the melody still makes your chest tighten. It becomes the chorus.
Prompt bank to generate fresh seeds fast
If you want to come up with a song every day, use prompts. Prompts are small instructions that bend your attention and force a starting point. Here are prompts you can use anywhere.
- Write a chorus about a small lie that saved a relationship.
- Make a song from the perspective of a lost earring.
- Write a verse about a midnight grocery run that went wrong.
- Take a headline and turn it into an emotional truth.
- Write a chorus that begins with the title I am not the same.
- Use a text message thread as the skeleton for a verse.
Tip
Set a timer for five minutes and force yourself to create something rough. Speed breeds honesty. You can refine later.
Turn seeds into a hook
A hook is a memorable musical or lyrical idea that listeners hum back. Hooks can be melodic, lyrical, or rhythmic. Your job is to find one moment in the seed to magnify.
How to find a hook in one minute
- Read your seed out loud once and underline the most emotional word.
- Sing the seed on vowels without words for one minute. Do not judge.
- Pick the melody phrase that repeats in your head after you stop singing.
- Place your working title on that phrase and sing it with different rhythms until one sticks.
Real life scenario
You are in a taxi and you hum on vowels to a two chord loop. A short pattern keeps returning in your head. You tack the title Into the Backseat onto that pattern and suddenly you have a chorus that feels like a chant people will scream on a late night bus ride.
Topline explained and how to write one
Topline is the main vocal melody and lyric written over a backing track. If you hear a demo and the vocal sticks first you are hearing a strong topline. Topline writing is a skill you can practice alone or with a producer.
Topline method that works
- Create a simple loop. Two chords with a basic beat is enough.
- Do a vowel pass. Sing nonsense syllables to find melodic motion.
- Make a rhythm map. Clap or tap the rhythm you like and count the syllables.
- Insert words using the rhythm map. Make sure natural speech stresses line up with strong beats. This is prosody. Prosody means how your words fit the rhythm and melody.
Prosody example
If the word messenger has stress on mess and you place it on a weak beat the line will feel off. Rewrite messenger to a phrase that lands stress on the strong beat or change the melody so the stress lands correctly.
Melody building blocks
Melodies use range, shape, and rhythm. You can control each to make something memorable.
- Range The vertical distance between the lowest and highest note. For an emotional chorus move the melody up in range compared to the verse.
- Shape The contour of the melody. Does it rise then fall or does it step gradually? A common trick is a leap into the title followed by small steps down to land.
- Rhythm The pattern of long and short notes. Contrast the verse rhythm with the chorus rhythm for maximum payoff.
Exercise
Sing a verse melody that stays mostly within five notes. For the chorus jump three notes higher on the title and then return by step. Record both. If the chorus does not feel bigger, move it higher by a third and test again.
Chord progressions and harmony basics
You do not need advanced music theory to come up with a song. You do need common progressions and a sense of emotional color. Here are practical options.
- Four chord loop A sequence of four chords repeated. It gives a stable bed for melody. Example progressions are C G Am F or in pop terms 1 5 6 4 meaning the tonic chord, the fifth chord, the sixth chord and the fourth chord. Tonic means the home chord of the key.
- Minor verse to major chorus Start the verse with a minor chord for tension and switch to a major chord in the chorus for bright release.
- Pedal Keep one bass note while chords above change for a hypnotic feel.
Term explained
BPM means beats per minute. It tells you the tempo. If you want a slow ballad try 60 to 80 BPM. If you want a dance floor banger try 110 to 130 BPM.
Lyric craft that makes people feel seen
Lyrics do not need to be clever. They need to be specific. Specificity equals credibility. Here are quick swaps that raise your lyric instantly.
- Replace general words with objects. Instead of saying I miss you say The coffee cup still has your lipstick ring.
- Use a time crumb. Add a detail like Tuesday morning or last June to anchor the listener in a moment.
- Use action verbs. Active images feel cinematic. Instead of I was sad say I folded your shirts into the drawer like a ritual.
Rhyme tips
Do not force rhymes. Use internal rhyme and family rhyme where words share vowel or consonant families instead of perfect rhymes. Perfect rhyme means exact rhyme like love and dove. Family rhyme means similar without exact match like love and enough. Mixing both keeps lyrics modern and not sing songy.
Structure choices that guide the idea
Choose a structure that supports your idea. Popular options are verse pre chorus chorus verse chorus bridge chorus. Pre chorus is a short section that builds tension into the chorus. Bridge is a contrasting section late in the song that offers new information or a twist.
Real life scenario
Your working title is Please Stop Calling. Use a short pre chorus to raise stakes and point to the title. The chorus then repeats the title on a long note so people can sing along at a show.
Beating writer s block and doubt
Writer s block is not a creative disease. It is a decision problem. You are deciding how good the idea must be before you write it down. Lower the bar. Use tiny tasks that preserve momentum.
- Micro draft Write one line that states the feeling in plain speech. No poetry required.
- Five minute demo Record a two chord loop and sing the micro draft for five minutes. Capture one usable phrase.
- Co write swap Trade a line with another writer and complete each others sentences. Constraints force moves.
Tip
If you feel terrible about a draft, set it aside for 24 hours. Return with a small edit pass. Often what looked bad in the moment is salvageable with small cuts and stronger images.
Collaborative methods to find a song together
Co writing is common. It is when two or more people write a song together. It is useful because other people bring fresh associations. Here is a simple co write ritual that prevents chaos.
- Start with a shared seed. Spend three minutes saying phrases out loud until you find a tension point.
- Agree on a one sentence story of the song. This is the emotional promise. Keep it short.
- Assign roles. One person focuses on melody, one on lyrics, one on chords and production ideas.
- Record the session even if it sounds bad. You will find gold in the mess.
Real life scenario
You and a friend have coffee and decide the song will be about a canceled flight that felt like the end of the world. One person writes a chorus about the boarding pass as proof of absence and the other writes verses about airport coffee. Together the song becomes a travel diary about loss.
Production and arrangement basics for song ideas
Production is the way elements are arranged in a recording. Arrangement is the order of sections and how instruments enter and leave. You do not need a full studio to arrange. Use simple placement ideas to test the emotional shape.
- Start sparse. A vocal and one instrument reveals the core song.
- Add one new texture per chorus to create lift.
- Use silence as a feature. A one beat gap before the chorus makes the next line hit harder.
Term explained
DAW means digital audio workstation. It is the software you use to record and arrange music. Examples are Ableton Live, Logic Pro, and FL Studio. MIDI is a protocol that sends note information to virtual instruments. MIDI stands for Musical Instrument Digital Interface. Knowing these terms helps you talk to producers but does not replace basic songwriting craft.
Finish it quick with a reliable wrap method
Finishing songs is a muscle. Use a finish checklist to avoid eternal tinkering.
- Lock the hook Make sure the chorus has one clear repeatable line.
- Crime scene edit Remove any word that explains instead of shows.
- Prosody check Speak every line and ensure natural stress lands on strong beats.
- Demo pass Record a simple vocal over the existing arrangement. Keep it rough.
- Feedback loop Play for two people. Ask what line they remember most.
- Fix one thing Make a single change that increases impact and then stop.
Real life scenario
You finish a demo at 2 a m. Two days later you play it for a friend and they quote the wrong line as the chorus. You change that line so it is obvious and then stop. The song is now ready to pitch or release.
Practical exercises to come up with songs daily
Use these drills to build the muscle of idea generation.
Object swap exercise
- Pick one object within arm s reach.
- Write four lines where the object performs an action in each line.
- Time limit ten minutes.
Text thread chorus
- Open a text thread and pick three messages that form a mini story.
- Write a chorus that uses one of those messages as the title.
- Time limit ten minutes.
Melody vowel drill
- Play two chords for two minutes.
- Sing on pure vowels and mark two melodic phrases that repeat.
- Put one short title on the more singable phrase.
Examples you can steal and remix
Here are quick seeded examples to show the process in action. Take them, change them, make them yours.
Seed one
Object: broken alarm clock
Emotion: relief
Working title: I missed my morning
Chorus idea
I missed my morning and the world did not end. I drank sunrise from the wrong cup and learned to bend.
Seed two
Object: single shoe behind the couch
Emotion: regret
Working title: Your left shoe
Verse idea
It lives behind the couch like a small excuse. I find it between chips and yesterday s receipt and I feel our slow undo.
Common mistakes and quick fixes
- Too many ideas Pick the strongest idea and let everything else be detail. Fix: write a one sentence emotional promise and remove lines that do not serve it.
- Title hidden Your working title should be audible in the chorus. Fix: place the title on a long note or the downbeat of the chorus.
- Prosody friction If a line feels awkward to sing it probably looks fine on paper. Fix: speak the line at conversation speed and align strong syllables with strong beats.
- Demo overproduction Too many sounds can hide weak songwriting. Fix: strip to the vocal and one instrument and test the core song.
How to pitch an idea quickly
If you want to pitch a song idea to a co writer or a producer use a short package. Keep it simple.
- One sentence summary of the emotional promise.
- Working title.
- Two chorus lines and one verse line.
- Rough demo recorded into your phone with a loop or guitar.
Real life scenario
You meet a producer in a coffee shop and you have three minutes. You hum the chorus into your phone, say the title, and explain the story in one sentence. They nod. You just started a session.
Action plan you can use today
- Grab your phone. Set a ten minute timer. Use the object swap exercise and generate three seeds.
- Pick your favorite seed and do the one minute hook find method.
- Record a quick demo with two chords and the chorus on your phone.
- Run the crime scene edit on your chorus lyric. Remove any word that feels explanatory.
- Play for two friends and ask which line stuck. Make one change only.
- Label the file with the date and the title and move on to the next seed tomorrow.
Songwriting tools to know
- DAW means digital audio workstation. Use it to record demos.
- MIDI means Musical Instrument Digital Interface. Use MIDI to play virtual instruments if you produce beats.
- BPM means beats per minute. It dictates tempo.
- Topline means the main vocal melody and lyric written to a track.
- Prosody means the relationship between word stress and musical stress.
FAQ
How do I get song ideas when I feel like I have none
Use prompts that force a small choice. Pick one object and one emotion and write for five minutes. Change the narrator or the location. Speed will get you past the blank page. Capture everything and sort later.
How do I write a hook that sticks
Find the one emotional line in your seed and put it on a strong musical gesture. Repeat it. Keep the vowels open and the rhythm simple. Hooks sing best when they are easy to say and easy to hum.
Do I need to know music theory to come up with songs
No. Basic theory helps you communicate but it is not essential for ideation. Learn a small set of chord progressions and basic terms like tonic and relative minor. Then use your ear and common sense to make decisions.
How do I stop overworking a song
Use the finish checklist. Ask two people what line they remember and adjust one thing only. Set a deadline and ship the best version you can before the deadline.
What if I only get good ideas in the shower
Install a capture habit. Keep a waterproof note pad or use your phone voice memo immediately. The trick is to catch the idea before it dissolves into the steam. Later you can expand on it with a timer and a loop.