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Help To Write A Song

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You want a finished song that actually matters. You do not want another thirty minutes of half-formed ideas that live forever in your notes app. You want a workflow that gets you from vibe to fully sung demo with clarity, pressure, and ridiculous momentum. This guide gives you exact steps, ruthless editing rules, and hilarious but real examples so that writing a song feels less like guessing and more like craftsmanship with personality.

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This is written for humans who breathe, binge streaming playlists, and sometimes text back too late. We will walk through idea selection, title and core promise, melody craft, lyric mechanics, harmony choices, production-aware decisions, finishing rituals, legal basics, and promotion moves you can make before your coffee cools. I will explain every term and acronym like you are here because you want to win not because you enjoy confusing jargon. Expect edgy metaphors, blunt edits, and exercises that work when you actually do them.

Why Most Songs Die in Drafts

Songwriting fails for a handful of boring reasons. Knowing the enemy helps you fight it.

  • No clear emotional promise The song tries to be everything and means nothing. Listeners need one anchor idea they can repeat to their friends.
  • Lack of contrast Verse sounds like chorus which sounds like bridge. Contrast creates payoff and keeps ears interested.
  • Prosody problems The natural stress of words fights the melody. The line sounds awkward even if it looks cool written down.
  • Too many ideas The song floats between themes and loses identity. Pick one emotional arc and ride it.
  • Fear of killing good lines You keep adding more instead of cutting for clarity. Less is often louder.

Step One: Find the Core Promise

Before chords, write one plain sentence that says the feeling of the song. Say it like you text a friend. No poetic fluff. This is your headline. It will become your title, your chorus seed, and your editorial filter for every line that follows.

Examples

  • I am trying to leave but I still call at one a m.
  • We are pretending we are over it when we are not at all.
  • Tonight I feel like the person I auditioned to be for years.

Turn that sentence into a short title when you can. If you cannot find a short title, keep working the sentence until it feels punchy. A good title is singable and repeatable.

Step Two: Choose a Structure That Fits the Promise

Structure makes your promise readable in time. Pick one of these reliable frameworks and map the exact moments you want emotional lift.

Structure A: Verse Pre Chorus Chorus Verse Pre Chorus Chorus Bridge Chorus

Classic and balanced. Use the pre chorus to tilt the narrative and make the chorus inevitable.

Structure B: Verse Chorus Verse Chorus Post Chorus Bridge Chorus

Hits the hook early. Use the post chorus to create an earworm phrase or chant that is easy to repeat live or in short form video.

Structure C: Intro Hook Verse Chorus Verse Chorus Breakdown Final Chorus

Great for songs that need a memorable motif up front. The breakdown can be a minimal moment that clarifies the emotional turn before a massive final chorus.

Step Three: The Vowel Pass for Melodies

Start topline work with vowels not words. This is the vowel pass. It frees melody from lyric constraints and reveals natural contour.

  1. Play your chord loop. Two chords are enough. If you do not play you can hum a rhythm or use a basic drum loop.
  2. Sing on pure vowels like ah oh oo. Record two minutes of improvisation. The point is to catch gestures that feel repeatable.
  3. Listen back. Mark the moments that made you sit up. Those are your hooks and motifs.
  4. Place the title or the core promise on the most comfortable and singable gesture. That becomes the chorus anchor.

Why vowels? Vowels are where melody lives. Consonants are like punctuation. If the vowel shape is great the words will follow.

Step Four: Build a Chorus That Is Easy to Repeat

Your chorus is the thesis. It should be short, clear, and emotional. Aim for one to three lines. Use everyday language. The title should appear once or twice here and land on a long or emphasized note.

Chorus recipe

  1. State the core promise in one short line.
  2. Repeat or paraphrase to give weight.
  3. Finish with a twist or consequence that adds stakes.

Example chorus seed

I will not call at one a m. I will not call at one a m. I put my phone face down and I breathe instead.

Step Five: Write Verses That Show, Not Tell

Verses are camera shots. Use objects, actions, and tiny time crumbs to create a scene. If the line could appear on a poster, it is probably lazy. Replace with sensory detail.

Before and after

Before: I feel sad after you left.

After: Your hoodie smells like rain. I wear it to bed on Tuesday because I am training my hands to forget you.

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Real life scenario

Imagine a friend who breaks up with someone and still eats the takeout they ordered together. The verse can be about the leftover container in the fridge and a fork that picks at a memory. No need to say the person is sad. The object does the work.

Prosody Explained

Prosody is where natural speech stress meets musical rhythm. If the strong syllable of your words does not land on the strong beat of the music the line will feel off in the ear even if it looks clever on paper.

How to fix prosody in five minutes

  1. Say the line out loud at normal speed. Circle the stressed syllable in each word.
  2. Clap the beat of your chorus or verse. Mark strong beats. Align the stressed syllables with those beats.
  3. If alignment fails, either move words around or change the melody so the stresses match the strong beats.

Example

Awkward: I am so over you. The strong word might land on a weak beat.

Fixed: Over you I am. Switch word order or melody so over is emphasized on the beat.

Harmony Basics That Support the Song

Harmony does not need to be fancy. Keep a small palette and create contrast from verse to chorus.

  • Four chord loop A progression of four chords repeated is a safe but effective bed for songs. It gives room for melody and lyric to be the identity.
  • Modal borrow Borrowing one chord from the parallel key like switching a major chord to minor can lift the chorus emotionally. Parallel key means the key with the same root note but different quality. For example if you are in C major borrowing a C minor chord is modal borrowing.
  • Pedal tone Holding one bass note while chords change above it creates tension without adding more moving parts.

Real life analogy

Think of harmony as the wallpaper of the song. You do not notice wallpaper until it changes. When it does change the whole room feels different.

Arrangement Moves That Make The Hook Explode

Arrangement is how you place instruments and silence to shape the listener experience.

  • Instant identity. Open with a motif so listeners know the song within ten seconds.
  • Space before the chorus. A small pause or a quieter bar makes the chorus feel huge when it hits.
  • One new element per chorus. Add a subtle harmony or a percussion element on the second chorus then a countermelody on the last chorus. That makes repeat listens feel like progression.

Production Awareness For Writers

You do not need a full production degree. Still, knowing basic studio language helps you write with purpose.

Terms and friendly definitions

  • DAW Short for Digital Audio Workstation. This is software you record and arrange music in. Popular options include Ableton Live, Logic Pro, and FL Studio. Think of it as your digital studio desk where tracks live.
  • BPM Beats per minute. This tells you how fast the song is. A ballad might sit at 60 to 80 BPM. A dance track will often be 120 BPM and above. Pick a BPM that suits the groove you want.
  • Mix This is the process of balancing volumes, EQ, and effects so everything sits together. It is not mastering which is the final loudness and polish step.
  • Mastering The last step that prepares a song for release. It makes tracks loud and consistent across streaming platforms.

Real life scenario

If you write a chorus with lots of long vowels and doubling, tell your producer you want room in the mix for vocal doubles. That prevents the chorus from getting lost under heavy synths later.

Writing Lyrics Fast With Micro Prompts

Speed creates truth. Use short timed drills to push through doubt and produce raw material you can edit later.

  • Object drill Pick one object near you. Write four lines where the object acts in a scene. Ten minutes.
  • Time stamp drill Write a chorus that contains a specific time of day and a weekday. Five minutes.
  • Dialogue drill Write two lines that read like text messages. One person says something small. The other replies in a melted way. Five minutes.
  • Reverse question List five questions the listener might be asking. Answer each in one line. This helps you write lines that satisfy curiosity.

Rhyme Techniques That Sound Modern

Rhyme can be obvious or clever. These options keep it modern and musical.

  • Perfect rhyme Exact sound match at the end of lines. It is satisfying but can sound childlike if overused.
  • Family rhyme Similar vowel or consonant families without being exact. It feels natural and contemporary. Example family chain: late stay safe taste take.
  • Internal rhyme Rhyme within the line. It adds musicality without forcing line ends.
  • Near rhyme Words that almost rhyme but create surprise. Use it when you want subtlety.

Topline To Demo Workflow You Can Steal

  1. Lock a two or four bar chord loop in your DAW or on your instrument.
  2. Do a vowel pass. Record the best gestures.
  3. Pick a gesture for the chorus and place the title there.
  4. Write verses with the crime scene edit in mind. Replace abstractions with objects and actions.
  5. Record a clean vocal over the loop. Keep production light. This is a demo not the final mix.
  6. Send to one collaborator or a friend. Ask one specific question like which line stuck with them. Do not over explain the song.
  7. Make one change based on feedback. Do not chop the entire arrangement because of subjective opinion.

Collaboration and Co Writing Etiquette

Co writing is a skill. You must be useful and clear about what you bring.

  • Bring a concept. Do not show up empty handed with only a vague vibe.
  • Define roles. If someone is the lyricist and another the topliner clarify that. This prevents passive chaos.
  • Record everything. Save the raw takes and snippets. Someone will later want to sample a line or a melody phrase.
  • Agree on splits early. Publishing splits are the percentages writers get. For example if two writers split equally they might each take 50 percent. Publishing and master rights are different. Publishing is the songwriting share. Master rights are the recording share. Explain these terms to any co writer who does not know them.

You need to know a few simple things to protect your work.

  • Register your songs with a performing rights organization or PRO. PROs like ASCAP, BMI, or SESAC in the United States collect performance royalties when your song is played in public. If you are in a different country there will be local PROs. Do this as soon as you have a fixed recording or a lyric sheet you can timestamp.
  • Publishing split agreements are the written agreements that state who owns what share of the song. Never split by handshake only. Email a clear agreement after the session even if the split is equal.
  • Keep demo files organized. If you sample something you must clear it unless the usage is trivial. Clearing samples means getting permission and possibly paying for rights. If you are unsure avoid using uncleared samples in anything you release.

How To Finish A Song Without Overworking It

Perfectionism kills songs. Use a finish checklist to know when to stop.

  1. Lyric locked. Run the crime scene edit and confirm no abstract nouns remain unless they serve a purpose.
  2. Melody locked. Play the topline from memory three times. If it feels singable and natural you are close.
  3. Arrangement locked. Confirm the core motif appears in the intro by bar two and the chorus appears by one minute.
  4. Demo recorded. A simple demo with clear vocal and guide arrangement is enough to shop the song or test it live.
  5. Feedback loop. Play the demo for three people you trust. Ask one question. Make only the changes that increase clarity.
  6. Ship it. Release an initial version. You can always release an alternate later but not if you never release anything at all.

Promotion Moves That Help A Song Land

Writing the song is only half the job. These are quick wins for getting traction.

  • Create a short vertical video using the post chorus or an earworm line. Short form video platforms favor repeatable hooks. If your chorus has a clear hook it can become a trend.
  • Send personalized messages to three playlists curators. Make the message specific. Don’t paste the same cold email to everyone.
  • Play the song live as early as possible. The crowd will tell you what works and what does not. If a line makes people sing along keep it. If the energy halves at a certain bar revise it.
  • Collaborate with a creator who can make visuals. Good visuals make the song feel more like a world.

Common Songwriting Problems And How To Fix Them

Problem: The chorus does not feel bigger than the verse

Fix: Raise the chorus melody a third or fifth above the verse. Simplify language and add one new instrument or vocal layer. Give the chorus longer vowels and fewer consonants. Make it physically easier to sing loud.

Problem: The song has too many ideas

Fix: Return to your core promise. Remove any line that does not advance the promise or add a new revealed angle. If a verse introduces a new character or a new theme think about whether that is a second song in disguise.

Problem: Prosody feels off

Fix: Say the line out loud. Move stressed syllables to beats. Change small words to make stress land correctly. Practice rhythmically singing the line with spoken emphasis until it clicks.

Problem: The song feels flat late in the second chorus

Fix: Add a rhythmic change or a small countermelody. Consider removing instruments for two bars before the chorus to create a drop back into impact. Alternatively add a vocal ad lib that grows with each chorus so the final chorus feels maximal.

Exercises To Level Up Quickly

Exercise: The Title Ladder

Write your current title. Then write five alternate titles that mean the same thing with fewer or louder syllables. Pick the one that sings best. Vowels like ah oh ay are easier to hold on high notes.

Exercise: Camera Pass

Read your verse. For each line write a camera shot bracket like close up hands, wide street, overhead kitchen. If you cannot imagine a shot rewrite the line with a physical object. This forces sensory detail.

Exercise: One Word Swap

Pick a chorus line. Swap one word with a stranger or more concrete word. If the line improves keep it. If it becomes awkward revert. This trains your ear for specificity.

Real Life Examples You Can Model

Theme: Trying to move on but still tempted to call late at night.

Verse one The light on the counter is your favorite hue. You left a mug with lipstick on the rim and I pretend I cannot see it.

Pre chorus I walk the apartment twice. I tell my feet the plan out loud. They do not listen well.

Chorus I will not call at one a m. I put my phone face down and I breathe instead. I will not call at one a m. I tell my thumb to sleep.

Theme: New confidence after months of hiding.

Verse The mirror keeps score of blinks. I stop at the third and leave a grin like a stubbed toe laugh.

Chorus I walk like I own the sidewalk. Say my name and the street will answer. I used to hide. Now I arrive.

Tech Tools To Speed The Process

Tools make things faster but not better by themselves. Use them to capture ideas and test arrangements.

  • DAW Your digital audio workstation for recording and arranging. Choose one and learn the basics. Logic Pro is popular on Mac. Ableton is great for loops and live performance. FL Studio is friendly for beat making. The specific DAW matters less than knowing how to record a simple vocal and export an mp three or wav file.
  • Phone recorder Use your phone to capture melodies when inspiration hits. Most phones have voice memo apps that are fine for demos.
  • Chord apps Apps that show chord diagrams can speed harmonic experiments if you are a beginner on guitar or piano.
  • Lyric writing tools A shared Google Doc is perfect for co writing because it stores versions and comments. Save each session as its own document to avoid overwriting gold.

How To Know When The Song Is Actually Done

There is no perfect moment but there are clear signs a song is ready for the world.

  • The chorus lands reliably when you hum it without the instrumental.
  • Verses feel like a series of camera shots that build to the chorus promise.
  • The demo communicates the song in under three minutes with the chorus arriving by one minute at the latest.
  • You have a clean file organized with metadata for distribution. Metadata means the data about your file like title writer credits and ISRC codes. ISRC stands for International Standard Recording Code and it is like a serial number for that recording. You will need it if you want to collect royalties from streaming and digital sales.

FAQ

How do I start a song when I have no idea

Start with one object and one time. For example think of a lamp at midnight or an old sweater on a Tuesday. Write three lines where that object acts. Use the movie camera trick and narrow to a single emotional promise. Then do a five minute vowel pass over two chords and mark the gestures you like.

Do I need to be able to play an instrument to write a song

No. Melody and lyric can come from humming and recording on your phone. That said learning basic chords on guitar or piano expands your options and speeds production. A lot of hit writers do not play at a virtuoso level but they can get a loop going and test toplines fast.

What is the best way to get unstuck on lyrics

Use the object swap drill. Replace an abstract word with a physical object. Add a time or place crumb. Read the line out loud and move stressed syllables onto the beat. Often what feels stuck is a line that has not been anchored in sensory detail.

How long should a demo be

Most demos are between two and four minutes. Aim to present the hook early and keep the arrangement light. The demo needs to show the song not the production. Clean vocal and a few supporting elements are enough.

When should I bring a producer into the song

Bring a producer when the topline and chords are locked or when you want collaboration on the sonic identity. Producers can co write but they also translate the song into a recorded form. If you are unsure ask for a paid production session to finish one chorus and evaluate chemistry.


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About Toni Mercia

Toni Mercia is a Grammy award-winning songwriter and the founder of Lyric Assistant. With over 15 years of experience in the music industry, Toni has written hit songs for some of the biggest names in music. She has a passion for helping aspiring songwriters unlock their creativity and take their craft to the next level. Through Lyric Assistant, Toni has created a tool that empowers songwriters to make great lyrics and turn their musical dreams into reality.